From the monthly archives: May 2010

Readiness to serve others.

On May 31, 2010 By

The “Light” to freedom shines bright on my fellow alcoholics as each one of us challenges the other to grow. The “Steps” to self-improvement have small beginnings, but each Step builds the “ladder” out of the pit of despair to new hope. Honesty becomes my “tool” to unfurl the “chains” which bound me. A sponsor, [...]

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Our primary purpose.

On May 30, 2010 By

It is with gratitude that I reflect on the early days of our Fellowship and those wise and loving “forestep-pers” who proclaimed that we should not be diverted from our primary purpose, that of carrying the message to the alcoholic who still suffers. I desire to impart respect to those who labor in the field [...]

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True tolerance.

On May 29, 2010 By

I first heard the short form of the Third Tradition in the Preamble. When I came to AA I could not accept myself, my alcoholism, or a Higher Power. If there had been any physical, mental, moral, or religious requirements for membership, I would be dead today. Bill W. said in his tape on the [...]

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Equal rights.

On May 28, 2010 By

AA offered me complete freedom and accepted me into the Fellowship for myself. Membership did not depend upon conformity, financial success or education and I am so grateful for that. I often ask myself if I extend the same equality to others or if I deny them the freedom to be different. Today I try [...]

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No maudlin guilt.

On May 27, 2010 By

When I first discovered that there is not a single “don’t” in the Twelve Steps of AA, I was disturbed because this discovery swung open a giant portal. Only then was I able to realize what AA is for me: AA is not a program of “don’ts, but of “do’s.” AA is not martial law; [...]

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In keeping with the pain and adversity which our founders encountered and overcame in establishing AA, Bill W. sent us a clear message: a relapse can provide a positive experience toward abstinence and a lifetime of recovery. A relapse brings truth to what we hear repeatedly in meetings—”Don’t take that first drink!” It reinforces the [...]

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Progressive gratitude.

On May 25, 2010 By

I am very grateful that my Higher Power has given me a second chance to live a worthwhile life. Through Alcoholics Anonymous, I have been restored to sanity. The promises are being fulfilled in my life. I am grateful to be free from the slavery of alcohol. I am grateful for peace of mind and [...]

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Happy, joyous and free.

On May 24, 2010 By

For years I believed in a punishing God and blamed Him for my misery. I have learned that I must lay down the “weapons” of self in order to pick up the “tools” of the A.A. program. I do not struggle with the program because it is a gift and I have never struggled when [...]

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Spiritual health.

On May 23, 2010 By

It is very difficult for me to come to terms with my spiritual illness because of my great pride, disguised by my material successes and my intellectual power. Intelligence is not incompatible with humility, provided I place humility first. To seek prestige and wealth is the ultimate goal for many in the modern world. To [...]

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When I was drinking all I could ever think about was “I, I, I,” or “Me, Me, Me.” Such painful obsession of self, such soul sickness, such spiritual selfishness bound me to the bottle for more than half my life. The journey to find God and to do His will one day at a time [...]

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